Facing family court can be scary—especially if you think you need thousands of pounds or a lawyer by your side. But many of the barriers people believe are there… actually aren’t.

We’re here to bust some common myths and help you feel more informed, supported, and confident about the process.

Myth: “I don’t have enough money for a solicitor, so I can’t go to court.”

Fact: You can go to family court without a solicitor.

An initial application for child contact arrangements costs £263, and you’ll need to complete a C100 form. This is the only mandatory fee—there are no additional court costs beyond this application.

Can’t afford it? You might be eligible for help with court fees if you’re on certain benefits or have a low income.

🔗 Apply for help with court fees

Myth: “I can’t afford to get a protective order.”

Fact: Protective orders—like non-molestation orders—are free to apply for.

These orders are about keeping you safe, which is why there’s no application cost if you’re representing yourself. Solicitors may charge a fee for their time and advice, but the court process itself is free of charge.

Myth: “I don’t have evidence of abuse, so no one will believe me.”

Fact: You don’t need ‘proof’ in the way you might think.

If you raise concerns about domestic abuse, the family court can order a Fact-Finding Hearing. This is not a criminal trial. The judge hears from both parties, considers witnesses or relevant information, and makes decisions based on the balance of probabilities—not the higher burden of proof used in criminal cases.

These findings will guide any decisions around child contact and safeguarding.

Myth: “I’ll have to see my abuser in court.”

Fact: You can request special measures to protect your wellbeing in court.

These might include:

• Separate waiting rooms
• A physical screen in the courtroom
• Appearing via video link

These options help ensure you feel as safe and supported as possible while engaging in the court process.

🧭 Want More Guidance?

The IDAS Family Court Guide offers a helpful step-by-step breakdown of the process, what to expect, and how to prepare—especially if you’re going to court without a solicitor.

💬 If you’d like support through the family court process—including emotional support, help filling out forms, or someone to sit beside you in court—our McKenzie Friend service is here for you.